Upset...

I had been told that one of my friends had been reading the blog and was upset by what I wrote. I gave the URL to that friend when I started the blog. I guess she must have been reading it on and off.

Anyway, the incident did really happen and I was upset then. I didn't want to confront her to hurt her feelings so I wrote what I need to write to "let off steam". That was my way to vent my frustrations.

Nevertheless, I was equally upset when I got to hear about it tonight Why can't she be upfront and tell me about it? What I wrote here is a record of my opinions and feelings. If one could not tolerate the criticism, then don't read it. Everyone has a choice. I have the choice to blog about my opinions and feelings and you, the reader on the other hand, have a choice, not to read the blog. Anyway, she has a choice to be upset. I shall not blame her.

I was so upset that a disclaimer had been put up, in case you did not notice.

I shared the incident with 5 other friends and they shared the same view. I am glad to have them as my friends.

Dear Lord, thank you for the 5 friends who stood by me. May you bless them with love and joy. I pray that I do not take their friendships for granted. As for my friend whom I have offended, please grant me the humility and patience to seek her forgiveness and let her accept my apology. It's not easy but I hope to do it. I pray that she will cool down and listen to my point of view. Amen.